Dreaming is a common experience for most people, but have you ever wondered why you dream sometimes, and not others?? The answer to this question isn’t straightforward and there is still a lot researchers don’t understand about the function of dreams. However, in this article, we’ll explore some of the most widely accepted theories and provide some insights into why we dream sometimes, and not others.
The Role of Sleep Cycles
One of the most well-known explanations for why we dream is that it’s linked to our sleep cycles. During the night, our bodies go through several stages of sleep, including deep sleep, light sleep, and rapid eye movement (REM) sleep.

It’s during REM sleep that we experience the most vivid and intense dreams. This is also the stage of sleep where our bodies are temporarily paralyzed, to prevent us from acting out our dreams.
The amount of time we spend in REM sleep varies from person to person, and it tends to increase as the night goes on. It is thought that this is why we often have more vivid and memorable dreams later in the night. Nicotine can affect REM, as explained in an article I wrote earlier: ‘Why Do Nicotine Patches Make You Dream? Understanding the Connection between Nicotine and Dreams’.
The Influence of Stress and Emotion
Another factor that can influence why we dream is our stress levels and emotions. Research has shown that people who are under high levels of stress or experiencing intense emotions are more likely to dream. This is thought to be because the brain is processing these emotions and experiences during sleep.
For example, if someone has experienced a traumatic event, they may dream about it as a way to process the experience and make sense of what happened. Similarly, if someone is feeling overwhelmed by stress or anxiety, they may dream about these feelings as a way to deal with them. Work or study stress is something most people experience, which could affect your dreams.
The Effect of Sleep Deprivation
Sleep deprivation can also have an impact on why we dream sometimes, and not others. When we don’t get enough sleep, our bodies are deprived of the opportunity to go through all the stages of sleep, including REM sleep.
As a result, people who are sleep deprived may experience fewer and less vivid dreams. They may also be more likely to experience vivid and intense nightmares, as the brain is working to process the stressful events of the day.

The Influence of Medications and Substances
Finally, medications and substances can also impact why we dream sometimes, and not others. Some medications, such as antidepressants, can suppress dreaming, while others can increase the frequency and vividness of dreams.
Alcohol and drugs can also have an impact on dreaming. For example, alcohol can interfere with the sleep cycle, causing people to have less intense and less vivid dreams. Meanwhile, certain drugs, such as marijuana, can increase the likelihood of having intense and vivid dreams.
Conclusion
There are lots of factors that can influence why we dream sometimes, and not others, including sleep cycles, stress and emotion, sleep deprivation, and medications and substances. Understanding these factors can help us better understand our dreams and the role they play in our lives.
Whether we dream or not, and how vivid and intense those dreams are, is unique to each person and can change depending on our experiences and circumstances. However, by paying attention to our sleep patterns and the factors that influence our dreams, we can gain deeper insights into our own sleep and the role it plays in our mental and emotional wellbeing.